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Try Reflection Writing for Yourself! Free Drop ins on #WellnessWritingWednesdays

Reflection Writing in your journal is an amazingly simple tool. Most amazing because it’s a secret no one really knows about.

Learn the Simple Power of Reflection Writing

In a quick moment of mindfulness after you write in your journal you can capture the wisdom within. Be your own self-development coach, identify that next big idea, give yourself the quiet hug you might need.

Want to learn more? Join me for free drop-in sessions on Wellness Writing Wednesdays. We try different prompts based on seasons of the year, current events and more. But we always end with a reflection write so you can see the power of these insights for yourself.

Sign up for my next free Zoom drop-in. Or book your own free private session any time based on your own calendar.

 

April Reflection Writing Inspiration & Wellness Writing Wednesday Drop-Ins

For variety and depth in your journal, see suggestions by date. Visit my blog for more info. Or follow me on your favorite social media channel for prompts as I post them.

Apr 14 / Wed Wellness Write (Perceiving family ancestor wisdom) free drop in*   
Apr 17 / Family History Day (Prompt: Resiliency in my family teaches me…)  
Apr 21 / Wed Wellness Write (Stream of Consciousness Writingfree drop in* 
Apr 22 / Core Tools for Your Journal Register on Dabble  90 min, Zoom
Apr 25 / DNA Day **NEW** Explore Family Connections: Known, Unknown & Even Hidden Register on Dabble  90 min, Zoom
Apr 28 / Wed Wellness Write (Prompt: ‘Could Have’, a poem by W. Szymborska) free drop in* 

May Preview: 

May 6/ **NEW** Explore Family Connections: Known, Unknown & Even Hidden Register on Dabble  90 min, Zoom
May 8 / Birth Mother’s Day (Prompt: ‘Dialogue with Ancestors – A Meditation for Journal Writing‘ in Insight Timer)  
May 13 / Journal to the Self  opens 6 week self-paced course

 

And, you can always find the latest tools, resources and courses on my website. For 2021 all courses are available as personal sessions just for you, or private group sessions and anyone special you’d like to include.

 

 

 

 

Photo by Estée Janssens on Unsplash.

Head Heart Gut Instinct

Inspired by February: Head, Heart, Gut Instinct

February is the shortest month, but packed with inspiration. I think of it as Head (Abraham Lincoln’s birthday), Heart (Valentine’s Day, of course) and Gut Instinct (taking a leap into Spring). My posts this month have reflected ways to use this inspiration in your journal.

As we enjoy today, the gift of one extra day, I’ll share some tools to tap the Head, Heart and Gut.

Tools for Head, Heart, Gut Instinct

Be sure to download my free Head, Heart, Gut worksheet. It’s the perfect prompt for the ‘Five Minute Sprint’ Journal technique. Great if you just have a few moments for your journal. And, it works great if you are feeling fuzzy or overwhelmed and wish to better understand what’s going on for you.

If you have more time, or wish to take your writing deeper you can listen to the Head, Heart, Gut audio meditation first on Insight Timer. The guided meditation will help you relax and focus with a short body scan and some relaxation breathing. (File should be live on my Insight Timer library this weekend.)

Enjoy this bonus day that calls us to trust our instincts and take a Leap!

All these journal techniques are designed to help you be your own personal growth coach and guide towards your own vision. Try these free tools and then let’s schedule a no obligation phone call to chat about how I can support your own change journey. Mark your calendar and plan to join me for my next online Journal to the Self® workshop which begins March 12. 

LOL in Your Journal

Reflective Journal writing is so simple to do — and brings amazing insights. I also love those times when my journal absolutely makes me laugh out loud. It’s often when I need a humor break the most, or as I’m making some sort of delightfully profound connection — blowing away an obstacle that had been weighing me down.

It’s really fun for me to share a recent humor example that I think will stay with me forever. I’m reading Writing the Natural Way by Gabriele Rico. One of the activities is to use the Clustering technique as in Journal to the Self®with the prompt word

Afraid

I have to admit I wasn’t overwhelmed with the exercise. But I sat down and began by adding words about the big, bad, scary things related to being afraid. And then I added a protective lower ring I called the ‘safe zone’. And I finished with a core that wrapped around and highlighted the powerful parts of being afraid (like learning and experimenting). I felt done with words and sketched a few lines to contain and highlight the groupings.

I put my pen down, again feeling underwhelmed. But then I shifted the page just a touch to review my Cluster.

And I laughed out loud.

Journal to the Self Online

 

Spontaneous ‘Afraid’ sketch above. Brain diagram summarizes my recent reading. Notice how thinking, emotional and safety/instinct words line up. Even a stem! (Albeit wrong anatomically).

Here’s the sketch that emerged from my Cluster, as well as an image that represents the brain reading I’ve been doing lately about our reptile brain, why it’s programmed to think negatively (to protect us) and how people can use journal writing as a work around.

Darn it if I hadn’t just sketched a whole brain! When I finished laughing I did the next writing step, to describe what happened in the Cluster. In just mere moments I combined items related to my personal goals and business vision, readings and research I’ve been doing lately, and topics I’ve been discussing with a friend. Talk about the time savings, good laugh and next steps all packed into one journal write.

Journal to the Self Online

Hope you have fun watching for the humor in your own journal! Whether you make yourself laugh, or inspire yourself with how super-smart you can be, I hope you can join me soon for a Journal to the Self workshop. It’s a fun and amazing experience of personal discovery. My next online class begins March 12. Apply coupon code ‘Envision2020’ for a discount.

Brain image source: World of Lucid Dreaming

Clustering: On ‘Thesaurus Day’

Happy birthday Peter Roget (inventor of the modern thesaurus)! Okay, I did have to look this up. But I love that it’s a thing.

In honor of Peter’s love of words, I’d invite you to try the Clustering technique in your journal today. Clustering is a quick and simple technique that tricks your left (thinking) brain into taking a break, so your right (scenery) brain can write. This is consistently one of my students’ favorite techniques and they always get delightfully surprising and useful insights, in a fast and fun way.

Try it out. As a prompt, use whatever word inspires you in this year 2020. Or try:

My Priorities 2020

Write your word in a circle in the center. Then branch, doodle and scribble all the thoughts that emerge. As some point, you’ll just feel done. When that happens, review the diagram and describe in words the story it tells. Do the branches relate? Or contradict? Are there lots of short branches? Or a few long ones? What are the arrows, underlines or notes in the margins telling you? Note whatever trends, themes, insights you notice.

Now go back and skim your doodle again, as well as the words you’ve written to describe it.  Write a short reflection: whatever observations, surprises or ideas you have. This might be an emotional feeling, a sense in your body, or the seed of an idea you want to follow up on.

Clustering is just one of 18 amazing techniques I teach during Journal to the Self workshops. Learn more on the Workshops page (online and in-person session). Or, same page has info if you prefer to sample first, try a free technique, or let’s schedule a no obligation phone call to chat about how I can support your own change journey.

Find a Balance for 2020

Happy New Year! This quiet time of year, plus a fresh start calls us to think about what we want to make of the next 365 opportunities ahead. It’s a great time to take a snapshot of the different elements of your life, assess where you are, where you want to be, and action steps to tune up the areas that need attention, or tame the areas that feel overloaded.

Personally, I like a two-step process. But try just one or the other if that suits you better.

Coming out of the ‘busy-ness’ of Christmas I like to start with a doodle step, so my creative brain has some space to pause and stretch and think. I like the Balance Wheel diagram from the Chopra Center – it’s simple and useful.

BalWheelsq

My own balance wheel was delightfully messy with spontaneous doodles. One gap area really surprised me. Acknowledging it inspires me for the year ahead.

Just grab a dull colored pencil and a bolder pencil. Then go around the wheel, starting with the dull color to represent where you feel you are on that life element at this moment. Connect all the individual lines to get a background shape. The irregularity is a picture of where you are overall — some areas with a lot of attention, others with less. Now grab the brighter color to indicate where you wish to spend your energy in 2020. I like to make these lines smaller and color them in, so the overall picture is more like a star coming out of the background shape. Don’t worry about the math and science of your diagram. It’s more about areas that surprise you — such as an area that feels much lower than where you want to be. Capture in words any takeaways from the picture — celebrate the balanced areas, be curious about the unbalanced areas, notice which areas call for your focus in the coming year. Then look at the diagrams again, read your recap and write a reflection. This might be in the form of more curiosities you have about a certain area, some ideas on daily habits for the coming year or other ways to explore taking the story of your diagram into action for 2020. 

 

Now you can go a bit deeper on 2-4 life areas from the wheel. These might just jump out at you. Or you might want to mix one area with a large gap between current and desired, one that you want to celebrate and one that you want to work on. Whatever your mix, explore these areas more in your journal. Give yourself five minutes to explore each selected area. Then use the same three questions to write about each one:

Where am I now?

Where do I want to be?

What will it take to get from ‘here’ to ‘there’ – or to maintain levels current satisfaction?

When you’ve finished the questions for your selected life areas, reread them all and write one last reflection. Now take a moment to celebrate your work. You’ve set yourself up to work on the things in 2020 that really matter to you! Wishing you the best for this New Year and beyond!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Let Go of 2019

Whether 2019 was amazing, or you want to forget it, it’s time to let it go. There are lessons in letting go – what hurts, what’s easy, things to repeat, things to never try again. The process of mentally letting go is a great activity for your journal.

List of 100 from Journal to the Self is a great technique for this. (You can read more about this clever and trusty tool in a previous post.) Write the inspiration for your list at the top — try:

100 ways to let go of 2019

Remember the tips: Write very quickly. Number as you go. Repeat, repeat, repeat is ok! If you get stuck, just write ‘stuck’ until the next thing comes.

Once you have a list of 100, reread it all — look for categories, patterns, themes and insights. Later in the list you will probably see an overall gift of wise ideas, look beyond the actual ink on the page for the insightful meaning and lessons. Synthesize this wisdom in a brief write to capture the ideas from the list.

Now write a reflection. What are your takeaways and next steps?

List of 100 is just one of 18 amazing techniques I teach during Journal to the Self workshops. Learn more on the Workshops page (online and in-person session). Or, if you prefer to sample first, try a free technique, or let’s schedule a no obligation phone call to chat about how I can support your own change journey.

 

Photo by Erda Estremera on Unsplash.

Defeat Nagging Thoughts

Happens to all of us. Nagging thoughts that just won’t go away. The ones that wake us up. Or pop in at the stop light. Betcha didn’t know there was a term for this — it’s known as the Zeigarnik Effect. Basically, researchers have found that if you tell someone not to focus on a white bear, they end up focusing on white bears!

Journal-writing can be a powerful tool for working with these inevitable nagging thoughts, so they can become constructive instead of distracting. A bullet journal works great for managing, prioritizing and completing nagging to do’s.

But what about the nagging thoughts of tough conversations, unexpected goodbyes, creative sparks, or those vague ‘tip of my tongue’ instincts? Experience shows that reflective journal writing is a great way to define, explore, process these kinds of nagging thoughts. Telling yourself the truth about what’s nagging, to yourself first is a great way to understand, experiment, preview possible next steps.

Ready to be proactive next time nagging thoughts take over your brain? Try a free sample of my Head/Heart/Gut journal prompt.

And if you want to be proactive about how you shape the New Year for yourself, visit my Envision 2020 page for information on workshops and other resources. It’s your year to shine. And if you’re proactive about what the voice inside is saying you will make it a year of constructive thoughts!

 

Image by Free-Photos from Pixabay

Envision 2020 – What’s within for you?

Let’s face it. Anyone can set a resolution for the New Year. But what’s the difference among those that bring that January vision to life during the next 365 days?

The key is voice, poise and growth. Together you can create a new mindset, and simple practices that equip you to do the things that really set your heart on fire! And it can all be designed, refined, celebrated and boosted through your journal.

Watch my blog leading up to New Year’s Day for resources, inspiration and ideas on how you can Envision 2020 for yourself! Or take a peek on your favorite social media channel.

To start, let’s look at the core concepts:

Voice: your own truth

  • To define
  • To celebrate
  • To love

Poise: resiliency in each step

  • Turtle, then hare
  • Start slow, go big
  • Mindful, confident, patient

Growth: the start, the goal and the journey

  • Create a journal practice
  • Create the map
  • Embrace the path

It’s time for your own personal call to action: tell yourself the whole truth, faster; then go after it slowly, savoring each step,

Want to start sampling how you can work in your journal to Envision 2020? Check out my special page dedicated to just this topic!

Background image by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash.